Hi Ciluzen! Firstly, thank you so much for visiting my thread! You have given me so much to think about, I only hope I can find the strength to carry out what I know needs to be done!
Love your 180 idea for Bubbles' friend!
Interesting that your H is still using you as his 'sounding board' when he is stressed about something. I wonder if our WAHs even realise how attached they still are to us, even though they would deny it most vehemently it it were pointed out! I think it shows how inside themselves they are during this MLC, that they find it appropriate to expect someone they have hurt so much to listen to their issues when they've 'sacked' us as that person to lean on!
I truly am in awe of how well you handle your interactions with your H. I am struggling to interact with mine at the moment and have taken to busying myself in another room again, like in the beginning, to avoid having to do so!