I am encouraged in reading about the slow reconnection with W. Slow and steady is the name of the game. We've seen far too many LBS being too quick in taking back the WAS and not making the WAS do the hard, difficult work of looking at themselves in straying from the M.
Please keep this in the back pocket: When you and W are ready for MC down the road, you might want to begin looking into Gottman based MC therapist in your area so you can call and do your own interviews so all of this will be ready for you two at the right time.
In my mind, I think it would be extremely helpful AND beneficial for you to go back and read all of RealityTrip's threads for I do see striking similarities between your situations. RT was a real DB Champ!!! And as far as I know from being around here, RT's story is apparently the only gay marriage that was successfully DB'd.
And as far as I know from being around here, RT's story is apparently the only gay marriage that was successfully DB'd.
