Marriage Slipping Away

[Ralph88]

None of us were perfect in our Rs trg8. Neither were our spouses. Marriages are hard, it takes two people that are committed, wiling to do anything to make it work. One thing that I know is we also react to each other's errors and it becomes a cycle. Keep working on yourself, let her be. Validate, GAL, act as if, don't get angry or emotional, let her bring R when she is willing. You have said everything you have needed to say, now it's time to shut up. Read read read and ask for advice here. Make no quick reactions or decisions, give a few days at least for every decision! Stay in mbr and house!