Good question JimKao: You don't want to see her set herself up for failure like this? Do you really feel you are responsible for her actions?
I don't feel responsible for her actions, and know she has to complete this journey on her own. While I have detached and am ready to walk away, I still have the protective instinct to want to make sure she doesn't set herself up for an even worse situation than she is in. In the end I know she'll figure it out on her own, in her own time.
I'm focused on bettering myself right now, and what happens with her is what happens... This week I think I finally realized I have no control or input into this situation and just have to follow through on patience, patience, patience!
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)