I would be able to continue, but will probably become more wayward myself. Her actions have spilled over from hurting me to hurting the Ds and that is what is getting me today. W and I haven't spoken on phone for a month at least, and only small interactions through text and some child events. The child events are mostly ending now. I don't see our interactions being very common in the future. We. See each other at church, she occasionally sends R texts out of the blue, I tend to not respond or validate. She spends a lot of time with OM, working out daily at work, and on weekends.
In a perfect sit I would let it run its course until failure and then see. I think she will do whatever to make this OM work though.
I don't need to send the message, I can do it through actions as we really aren't communicating, and I'm not initiating. I'm way better with my life and GAL now a days. And she never sees any of it so it is surely for me. I'll keep it in my mind. No need to make any decisions right now. Thanks for the support.
Ralph88 Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9 2013 B drop 1, EA found 2016 B drop 2, EA/PA? 2/16 Physical Seperation 2/16 I filed for D 4/16 PA Confirmed