[quote=CRW]Seems like being genuine and from the heart is what she appreciates most, but in the correct dosages.
A couple of questions for you to ponder:
- Why did you send this message? What were you trying to achieve?
Probably because I had a few beers and was feeling emotional to be honest.
Not terribly surprising. Here's what I'd recommend. Any time you think sending something like this is a good idea, sit on it for a night. If theres unsolicited contact, then theres no rush. Just wait a day and see how you still feel. Or run it by the folks here.
- Did sending this bring you closer to your goals?
I was nervous when I woke up this morning to see her response, which she must have sent first thing when she woke up. Overall I think it was a positive. Is it? I wouldnt necessarily say it's a negative. But what about it seems positive to you?
I guess I was hoping to inject some things to think about into her mind. I feel like I did. Maybe. Maybe not.
In my opinion, this reads like you wanting her to give you a gold star for making some changes to yourself. Like "Hey, W, look how great I am now. What do you think?" I think she deflected that in a way that doesnt hurt you, but I dont think it drew her any closer to you.
