Are we married to the same person?? I actually had to hold back laughter when my W told me the line about in a good R everything happens naturally and it doesn't take any effort. That's what the fog does to a person.
Yesterday I saw my W when I visited the kids. After seeing how she is, I realized I need to focus is on damage control. My W keeps asserting that her focus is 100% on doing what is right for the kids. Well, when your D is begging for your attention and you can't even hear her because you are so focused on your phone, how is that doing what is right for the kids? When you are sweet mommy one minute and irritable snappy mom the next, how is that doing what is right for the kids?
