Sounds good Thornton and I think you are right to be guarded. Can I ask what you would need to consider possible R with her?

FWIW, I think her actions over the past couple of years have highlighted some emotional immaturity and I think you are right to feel concerned (and I imagine a little elated that things seem to be turning!) But my biggest concern here is for the longer term and whether she has the tools and maturity to deal with the inevitable highs and lows of a longer term R. What has she done now that is different and which mean she can truly stay the course and be a committed partner? Can I ask, what are your non-negotiables?

Take care and I think you are doing really well xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus