So I felt that I needed to be a little more open with her, I sent her this text last night:
'i want to tell you something. thank you. these past 5 or 6 months have been very hard. however, had they not happened, i would not have confronted my demons and I wouldn't be the man and father I am now. it took a lot of courage for you to not accept a lesser version of the man you married. I'll be forever grateful to you for it.'
She responded with this:
'Thank you for saying that. Everything happens for a reason whether we understand why at the time or not. There is a purpose in Everything. '
Seems like being genuine and from the heart is what she appreciates most, but in the correct dosages.
Me: 38 y/o W: 38 y/o Together: 10 yrs Married: 7 yrs S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15) WBD: Sep '15 W's EA confirmed Oct'15 W Filed Dec '15 Personal awakening Mar'16