My plan is to steer clear of him, not get in touch...basically do nothing as far as he's concerned.

My plan is to carry on living my life as if, making plans for the summer and beyond, working on myself.

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017