Hi Melweb, I'm sorry to hear that and not surprised. I think you have the answer here already - I suspect he will continue to shuttle back and forth in confusion. He isn't likely to put an end to that pattern any time soon. You however can if that's what you choose - you don't need to remain a point on that triangle.

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus