You're lucky that you're getting a strong "no" from her, for what its worth (nothing). I think that my WW being out late helps me to detach more, regardless of the hurt. It's like we separate for those many hours.
Mine is in and out of our M everyday - Monday she was going to try, Tues out, wed try, thurs out, fri we're married forever. She shows so much attraction to me its not funny, I have to fight her off. She's always seeked attention and been needy though, and with OM not in city i'm the only one she's got - for now.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
