Your situation is a mind boogling one to me.

Is it because as you went ahead to fix yourself you realised you no longer want to be her? Or is it because you feel shes not meeting you half way, doing her part to fix herself?

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.