Wow, now that's a biggie: hearing that none of this was your fault. Bright is spot on, that is movement! Given his confusion I would be very curious to know how much he even remembers about all that he did do? Hmm.

Thanks for sharing.

Best of luck finding a specialist. I am thinking the plastic surgeons may be able to show you projected "after" pictures? Maybe they even have before and afters of similar procedures from other patients.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced