Why don't you come to your senses?

[BrightFuture]

2T, I glad that you got some apologies. I am pretty sure it would make feel better too. It gives me hope that maybe one day I will also receive some apologies from my H. I think you are making the right decision to not bring the D subject and give it some more time. I was just looking through my notes that I keep from this board, some books, some other online sites that I read, etc. Here is one that Wonka posted on some thread (I don’t know if I can find it now, but I have the copy of her post, and I hope she doesn’t mind me quoting her):
“MLCers are dead set in D because they cannot cope with the M and are not available to nuture the M. Their coping mechanisms are broken down at this point and cannot deal with the enormity of their sitch. Again, ignore H's comment every time he brings up D talk. If he persists, just simply say, "Sure go ahead and file D. However, I will not do the papewerwork for you."

I thought about you when I read this. I remember you said that your H was bringing the D subject every time he came for a visit, except for the last few visits. Maybe it is not applicable anymore, but I thought I would post it for you. You are pretty much already told him something similar anyway.

All I can say at this point is this guy is very different from one I've been dealing with the past 2 1/2 years. Uncharted waters here.

This is something, 2T! At least there is some movement! I’m sure you can figure out what to do with the “new” guy, LOL.

I’m leery of dermatologists too… How big is this spot? Does it bother you? I recently watched some documentary about cancer. It just enforced my belief that there are some alternative treatments to cutting, chemo, radiation, etc. Have you tried to research on this? Just my opinion. I know a lot of people don’t believe in alternative treatments. I just hope you will get this taken care off in the best possible way.

2T, take care. And thank for always stopping at my thread.