Headed for D - Trying to move on

[J5K]

Spoke with L today to review what psychologist may ask me at next week's appointment. Not very excited about doing this interview. I need to convince this person that I am at least equal or better than W to raise the boys? I guess I need to be a little selfish about this.

Later in afternoon WW calls me saying S2 is sick and is taking him to hospital. Tells me she took him to doctor yesterday because he had a stye in his eye (she is supposed to notify me of these things). Starts to spew that she has to take all 5 boys with her. Told her I was on my way and she kept saying no need for me to go, she will just have to take them all again (Rewriting history again because I always took the boys when she was freaking out about them being sick). Then she started to spew more about not finding S2's Medicaid card which I gave to her months ago. She started to blame me again for losing the card and I just hung up.

By the time I got close to hospital WW texts and says she left and is home. I asked if I could come by to see S2 and she did not answer. I went anyway and she just met me at front door and gave me update on what happened. WW thought S2 could possibly have meningitis, doctor told her that S2 has swollen lymph nodes that is why he couldn't move his neck after nap.

Then she tries to blame me for S2 being sick. Started to infer that he started to get sick when I had him for my overnights earlier in the week. Well she has been with him everyday, did she not notice? So I walked away from the front door and got back in my car and told her to have a good night.

I am getting so tired of taking all the blame. Any suggestions on how to handle this better would be appreciated.