Yes. Her mother in law flew in the next morning and she spent the night in the hotel with her mother in law and tonight they are both at our house. MIL said she thinks "we talked her off the ledge" I have also been in contact with other wife and she finally saw the OM tonight (both had been traveling) and got him to say he was acting a bit crazy and to try and not see my wife for the next week. His parents and her parents are coming into town this weekend to talk to him. They are such a close family that his parents are staying at her parent's house. Small steps.