Mel, I was reading something recently about MLC men in As and the gist of the article was that they like having two women "chasing" them. Here was the advice it gave. Don't play the game. Let him go to his OW but hold on to your self-respect and dignity by going dim and cooling you interaction with him. She will be straddled with the responsibility of meeting all the needs you've always met and she won't be able to do it because she doesn't know your h like you do. Right now he's getting his needs met by two women and stringing both of you along. As long as he can keep doing that and as long as he thinks both of you "want" him, things will not change. She's not going to stop chasing, so you have to.
Maybe that applies to your sitch, maybe it doesn't. It just made sense to me.
xoxoxo
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
