I agree with the others, no rush to respond to anything or make decisions. You do need a good L tho and get some advice--there are plenty that will give you free consultations. Do not let W pressure you into anything. These are big decisions!
So she is trying to rush the D. This is the headspace she is in now--but you already knew that--so this is not new information. So before any decisions are made or legal documents are signed, you need to really assess what is best for everyone--especially the kids--regardless of your feelings for her right now.
Situations change. People change. Everything $ucks right now, but it won't be this way forever. That I know.
-Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
