That makes sense.
In the State where we were the first time you had to be separated for a minimum of 12 months before you could be divorced if you had children. 6 months if not.
Where we are now you can be divorced in as little as a week if both sides agree.
I guess for me is I don't think I could ever trust her again no matter what
I just don't know how I would heal


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it