That makes sense. In the State where we were the first time you had to be separated for a minimum of 12 months before you could be divorced if you had children. 6 months if not. Where we are now you can be divorced in as little as a week if both sides agree. I guess for me is I don't think I could ever trust her again no matter what I just don't know how I would heal
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it