Found out 12 Hours ago. What now?

[Coconut]

So sorry to hear what's going on, I thought I was dealing with a WAW (no Affair) for the last month, 1230 this morning I confirmed that to be false.... It's one hell of a ride. The good thing is the last month I've been GAL and getting in shape, and disengaging so I was able to handle it a lot better.

I got a lot of great advice from some of the top vets on the site, you may want to read the last two or three pages of my thread, it may help to gain insight into disengaging and backing off.