For me it is an opportunity but even if it explodes it is my path.II will do my utmost to make it golden but I can only guide it so far as on this it takes two to tango. But I am a much more active and better dad than before. And I am still growing.

But I am not doubting myself.I am just somewhere new on my journey. Thank you for your viewpoint. It is always good to have an outside voice.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together