I just wanted to say to all of you, who are still fighting for the spouse they love after the second affair, I seriously applaud your efforts. I have been reading quite a few posts lately that that seems to be the case. I can't believe how many people are still DBing for their spouses and hope to reconcile. I'm suspicious that my wife is or was having an EA at minimum and quite possibly a PA. I have no facts or proof yet so I'm trying to hang on as best as I can until I do. But if I think what is true, then I will be moving out and filing for D immediately. I have been battling with my demons and trust issues for 3 years since the first time. There is no way I would ever be able to trust her again. And if I cant trust her then there is no relationship. I give y'all some serious credit and fortitude because I couldn't do it again
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
