Well enjoyed my time at my S baseball game last night. The W was there saw me from a distance and smiled and waved and started approaching but I was talking to some of the other Dads so kept my focus there.
She has been texting again, frequently, nothing ever about us which is fine by me but it's always something related to the D or how the D will effect such and such.
She is now very worried that the Step Children will no longer be covered under my medical insurance once the D is final. For one she will have to take them on her policy and this will cost her in premium payments so of course she is seeing what I can do to keep them on mine. Also my insurance is quite good so in general she's worried about proper medical coverage for the Step Children as well.
It just always seems like she is seeing how far she can take it. Where she can still get her D but make sure my bank account is still there for her and the other kids. I've seen this referred to on here as cake eating, so I know not to play along with it. She made this choice so now she has to live with all the consequences that comes with it. It's obvious she acted out of anger and emotion and never really thought this thing entirely through but again that's on her not me.
I just continue to act "as if" and go on with my life. I love my W still but I'm starting to see and be ok with the real possibility of life without her
