Started to think my wife is having an affair?

[cbtdad]

Ok. Wife and I spoke this morning. I'm still unsure as to what is going on and whether or not she is talking to someone or seeing someone.
We had a very good conversation and I told I was done living in limbo. I'm not going thorough this again. Last time around I feel like I took responsibility for the affair and blamed myself. I will not do that again. I told her I'm no longer willing to an in home separation. She either puts back on ring and I move back in to MBR or I'm moving out.
I'm done living in limbo walking around each other in the house acting like there aren't any problems. Her biggest fear is that I'm a salesman and I will just say and do what she wants for a few months, but it really won't last. I told her my fear is that I can't trust her. So we both have issues we are worried about. But I told to act like they don't exist and not work on it as a couple is something I won't do this time around. I will continue to work on myself individually with or without her.
But I'm not letting her cake eat any longer
Guess we'll see what is next