It sounds like you are in a challenging situation. Separated but not separated. Has your coach given you ideas. It sounds almost like a limbo situation because she is not willing to participate in decisions.
I don't know if this is sound advice or not, but my coach advised me to make decisions and do things without the filter of WAW when I metioned the damned if I do damned if I don't feelings. In the matters where you feel she needs to be involved, if she is not willing to be involved you may just need to make the best decision that you would make as if you did not have a W. I mean damned if you do damned if you don't from her perception, but the decision you make will be a good one for you right?
I am pulling for you so that you will feel confident in what you do and I can't wait to hear of your adventures with the motorcycle.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
