if i can offer one thing when the separation happens...and this may not apply to you at all but it did to me.

I tried to live my life similar to how i saw her. Always on the run to go out places in the evening and at night with friends etc..

I found myslef going out to bars etc.. and hanging out with friends and it got old very fast. I have cut it out completely. If that is what she needs to do feeling like she missed out on something go right ahead but it got old too fast for me.

be careful

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15