Hey OTW,

Nice post, sounds like things are going well, your living your life offering W chances to join in , if she doesn't then you not too worried. THis is how I need to picture my life for the next month moving forward.

I know this is how I was before I met my W, I was not looking for anyone, was living my life having fun enjoying life. She came into it and really I played it really slow.

I need to remember this.

Thanks for posting

Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016