Well at least for the moment it sounds like you guys have positive pro marriage supporters. My WW didn't have anyone pro marriage to talk to, or should I say she chose not to talk to anyone really pro marriage, and her biggest supporters imcluding mother, step father, father, brother, girlfriends, OM, really aren't pro marriage or pro family. They are all about her being happy. I use to be a big influence but have stepped back and she hasn't asked.
everyone involved comes from a complete family and from what I have heard from the other wife, everyone on his side, her side, my side and my wife's side are appalled at this and are working to stop it.
