She called. Said she was pissed about the email I sent and wanted to make sure there wouldn't be anymore. Told me it sounded like I was threatening her and she didnt want her professional reputation ruined. We talked civilly about plans for the weekend (i'm not going to the wedding, but going out there to hang out with friends). We wont see each other until the plane ride home when we are sitting next to each other. She asked a few times what I wanted, what I was thinking etc. I told her I was thinking she is borderline crazy right now, acting irrationally but there is nothing really I can do about it so go and do whatever it is you are going to do to fill the hole in your heart. I think she was somewhat taken a back by the answer.
Today they both are back at work together. His wife is finally home from his trip so they are going to have it out. His parents and her parents are flying into town this week to talk some sense into the other guy. Wife is staying at our house tonight with my MIL and then next week is staying the whole week with a girlfriend. She promised her mom that she is not going to stay with him but who knows if that's true. But not that it really matters if she is seeing him at the office all day and going to workout with him everyday.
MIL told me that she agreed to go to counseling with me if the person was willing to listen to both sides. She never mentioned that to me (and I never asked). Not sure how much good that will do given that there is no indication yet they will break it off.
