Originally Posted By: LiM
Be awesome. You've got to take your focus off of her and put on you and you alone. THIS is what will make a difference. You can't do anything to make her come around before she is ready. What you can do is be ready when she does. Be the LIGHTHOUSE. I can guarantee you W will notice the changes but she has to be ready to see them.
...So instead of thinking about what she is doing or thinking, work on YOU. Be ready to BLOW her away if/when she does come out of the fog.


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M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16