When is this going to get easier?? I know 4 months isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things, but when do I just throw in the towel and call it quits? When does this sadness end? How long am I supposed to be in limbo, not knowing if this separation is leading to reconciliation or divorce?!?


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16