2x2Many - it must be awfully confusing when they wake up a little and wonder what they have done/what they are doing. How frightening to scratch your own head at the decisions you are making.
It must help a little bit to hear him apologize for the way he's treated you, though? And for a guy who spends a lot of time talking about his "friends" and how he needs to be social, he certainly sounds lonely.
And yes, he seems lost from himself.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced