You will be on a rollercoaster ride. My W has said the same things to me abut life, easy for us to go to work while she is stressed watching the kids. Your S will rewrite history.
You are doing well. Take small steps and then take stock in W's reactions. This will help you get a sense of what works to have a positive R.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...