Sleep on it. Don't make any emotional decisions. If you feel that W's things should move out of the MBR then do it after your emotions have subsided.
As for OM's W, I would suggest the same. If your W is not remorseful about the A then letting OM's W know may push your W further away. Timing is everything.
I am sorry you are going through this, let the anger flow through you, tomorrow is another day!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...