wow, wow, wow, I am so grateful for your response. at work now and need to go home and ponder all of this. It makes sense. I will answer questions when I get home. I just am so very happy to have your help. I was thinking today, obviously it would be freakin' NUTS to just say - sure honey, move on back to house, when I haven't even seen him in person! so much to meditate upon. THANKS!!!! I HEAR you!
