I totally get your feelings, and to reply to your post to me a few days on your thread, yes I too am finding this hard. Seeing him treat me bad, ignore me and all the triggers around me are painful. Having a person you love and want to love you right next to you asleep in bed is an unbelievable pain. Our wedding anniversary is round the corner and that's on the back of my mind.
I totally totally agree with what lim says about getting them back quickly will lead to being back here. When my h broke off with the last ow, I was so happy to have him back, we were like two teens that got together, he came straight back into the room and we continued as normal. He hadn't dealt with issues and we didn't mend our m.
They need to realise the consequences of their actions, and need to do the work on themselves
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
