How to rekindle love?

[Rose888]

H's detachment seems to have increased since he decided to stay and try to make things work.

He's also stressed about tight deadlines at work and an issue with one of our kids that erupted yesterday.

I think I need to give him a little more space and stop initiating any physical contact. (Before BD, we had a lot of casual touch in our relationship, so it's a habit.)

We haven't had any R talk other than some brief chats about which counselor to use. (First appointment on Monday!) My goal is to have minimal R talk outside of the counseling sessions, at least at first.

Stil working on my own stuff and GAL, although I am going to hold off on the pottery class for now, I think.