Originally Posted By: DDJ
@darknes, serious, i've gone soooo deeeep. You want me to go deeper. Not sure that I can but I will, just cos you asked.


I think you understand the "what" behind what youve done. Now it's time to understand "why"! Then, you can figure out how to approach changing.

Originally Posted By: DDJ
As for adding to my goals, i think it improves focus and motivation. I know exactly what the future me will look like. Nothing like the previous me.


I recommend that you write them out. Doesnt have to be here. But write out exactly what you want. Then it's easy to hold yourself accountable to it.