Hi DBers- Feel like I've gone beyond DARK and have created a black hole...suddenly having a gut feeling today that it's time to see each other in person. it's starting to feel almost unkind to be this out of contact. In next couple of days will be deciding when to say it's ok for him to come back to live on our property. Suddenly it just feels in my gut that this is the way forward. I know I need to think this through, but also don't want to over think it. Today is one month since our fight that precipitated his moving out 2 days later. I feel like this much DARK may start to harm our chances in the long run. Need to figure out the ground rules and how this will work and what I will propose to him. Looking at Mort Fertels Marriage Fitness program that starts next Monday....have any of you had experience with it??? would love to know if yes. thanks!!!
