The major change of scenery must be good, too. I love my farm, but there are triggers lying in wait for me everywhere I go, and in everything I do. I don't want to be anywhere else, but it's a struggle sometimes.

Your thought of the day is spot on.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16