cbtdad, Trust your intuition. I ignored/didn't want to listen to mine for too long, then dug and found out too late. Do your investigating and find out the truth. Chances are there's something there if she wants to separate.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016