Started to think my wife is having an affair?

[cbtdad]

I've been doing GAL for years now:)
I'm very content with who I am on a number of levels. I need to work on a lot issues I have with my past and childhood things I learned unfortunately. Things that have caused some of this.
But to me its definitely different this time around. I'm not scared or afraid like last time. I'm ok with moving on. I've actually thought many times doing so because Im not sure she can make me happy with what I want. The thing that stops that is when she is happy I seem happy. We have a six year old and I don't want to just walk away. I believe that we owe it to him to at least try this.
But I do know that I will absolutely not tolerate an EA or PA this time around. So if that is the case I would be gone for sure.
I'm really 50/50 on rather I think this is happening. I think a lot of it could be in my mind from last time. I guess only time will tell. As for now I'm thinking I need to work on my issues and see how things play out. I don't see a need for rushing anything this time around.