Started to think my wife is having an affair?

[Coconut]

I can tell you that I asked several times, didn't do me any good, and even when she said no I didn't know if I could believe her... I never asked to see her phone, but I'm glad I didn't... I just got out and did things for me, it's only been a month for me, but I'm content with knowing that if there is an EA I can't do anything about it now, I need to get myself stronger first...

My wife and I will start counseling together in 2 weeks, I'm guessing my trust issues will be brought up then, until then I will continue believing there is no EA. Have you started getting a life, or do you have one? I've been using meetup.com to find groups with similar interests as me, and I have really enjoyed getting back out and having fun separate from her, it helps me although I do still have my struggles.