I think you are trying to make too much sense of irrational behavior. Stop looking for patterns. The groupon thing is temp checking. Like OTW said: she will instinctively try to keep you engaged as a plan B even while she is rejecting you completely.
You survived the weekend. Good on ya!!!
You will survive the separation too.

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017