Focus on your and plan a great day for yourself. It's too easy to fall back into the trap of worrying about the other person's motives and feelings. Whenever I see W's contributions to a wider family text group I try to erase quickly and not dwell on her attempts to carry on as if nothing has changed. We all have days when we want to give up, are angry that things aren't as we want them to be but try to remember the progress you have made. You've got friends and family to help you throught this. Don't waste your time thinking about him, although we all know how hard that is. It won't change anything and can only cause you hurt. If things change you'll know how to react but keep going and enjoy your days for you and yours.


Me:48
W:45
S:15
M:17
T: 25
Separated: Oct 2015