Ahhh, a very good point you make. We didn't tell eachother everything. I had no freakin clue there was a chick on back-up.
The sad thing, you are right, he wasn't totally honest with me, because he wasn't totally honest with himself. No that he was honest with me, but he would always verbally express his feelings which I believe in his head were honest. He just didn't know how to show they were true. And maybe they weren't and that's why he couldn't show them.
Which is why from here on out, I will surely need action. That's a deal-breaker. And it was a deal-breaker for me in this R too.
I speak a lot about how he let me go, but truth be told, I did recognize this and I was the one who gave him the "ultimatum" as he likes to call it. He chose directly to someone else instead.
You are right Cadet. Better, healthier things ahead.