thanks V. detach...it feels some months I am therr and then she gets sick or hurt or whatever and i get sucked back in.

am I just using her injury as an excuse to be that caretaker again. will have to see if there are things I don't have to be doing...think on this mark.

thank you roiste, i will keep a focus on me...it is difficult to not get ragged when there is so much to do. I have derby practice tonight then out for a beer with the guys after...last weekend I got home after midnight so was more tired still. I need to sort that out too...how to find time for all of that and still get all I need to do, done.

btw, joining a roller derby team has been so very awesome I cannot hardly believe it. I just hope my body does not betray me...I'm not getting any younger wink


M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together