Hey OTW,

I don't get it she was away for a weekend with our kids and with all her family presenting like a single mom. We had little to no contact. I was at home grieving the loss of the MR. She did not know that though. Then we are back in the same house, I have a S agreement to sign anyday and she is asking me if I want her to buy me an oil change groupon? Ok the soccer one was important as it was info on when that was starting, but then she asks me to go with her and the kids grocery shopping and out for dinner.

I am thinking make up your mind do you want me around or not.
I wanted to say forget it but I only have less then a month of this in house S.

Then we get back home and kids want to go for a walk with dog, I ask W she is on the phone with a girl friend that is D but her ex is single again and is showing interest in her again. This is the friend that pushed W to drop me as fast as she could. You know friends that are D like to have company.

Anyway W doesn't want to go with us, she says she has stuff to do in the house.

I go and have the best time with the kids with out her.

We get back and nothing was done in the house, dishes were not done, stuff was not put away and she was talking on the phone still to the same friend. We were gone for an hour.

I don't get it. She is all over the place.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016