Listen, I know I'm doing the best I can and I shouldn't be giving it this much focus and attention for someone whose been at this for 10 months, but something won't let me quit.
Hi HopeRB, I've been reading your thread and finding a lot of similarity's in our situations. Except that the roles are reversed. I was the WAW but am now having second thoughts. We've been in occasional contact and exchanged an email today. We are planning on getting together next week for dinner.It is his birthday then. I doubt whether there will be any R talk but wonder how he is doing. I am GAL and doing what makes me happy but still miss him a lot. We S in August last year. My call as I have felt under valued and unloved / controlled/ ignored etc for about 2 years before I actually left. Where we live, we cannot get D until we have been S for 2 years. I'm planning on being happy and positive when I see him but not to have any expectations that things will progress as I would like them to. I hope that he will see that I am back to being the person he fell in love with and that he wants to work on things but I will not be the one to bring that up. No R talk! Hopefully he has done some work on himself too - he said a while ago that he needs to sort himself out.
I wish you well with your sitch and will be watching your progress through this "rollercoaster" as you call it. I sometimes think I'm in a bad dream.
One foot after the other!
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Me:54 Him:58 3 Adult children between us. I am H 2nd wife. My 1st marriage. Married:8 Together: 12 Separated: 1 Aug 2015 Status: Separated In NZ we need to be separated 2 years before we can divorce.
